Cheated on her husband with best friend’s husband while her best friend and “adopted” nephew were in a Children’s hospital for the nephew’s cancer. When Mom and Babe returned home, they continued, lied, took children on outings, gaslighted and abused the wife. (Best friend.) She took her best friend for all she was worth. Lived in BF’s home when homeless, accepted money appliances, etc. because of the sympathy that the friend had for the difficult divorce. Had the wife known that friend’s divorce because she cheated on her husband with a friend’s husband she would not have received such support and knew it. Repeatedly stated that she wanted to keep wife as a friend and maintained high degrees of secrecy in order to continue receiving benefits. Did not handle self honorably after the discovery of an affair. Did not disclose pregnancy status. I did not move as she had promised to do as it was impossible for us to move due to the child’s local medical commitments.