Boerne TX. – Home of the Infamous Lying, Cheating Narcissist Lacey Howell aka Lacey Cummins!. The information that follows below is what Lacey Howell aka Lacey Cummins, originally from Lufkin TX. really doesn’t want anyone else to ever see or know about, her ex-fiancé’s side of the story, better known as The Truth.
Everything shared within has been or can be verified and supporting documentation and/or evidence exists, including email, social media apps, Facebook, telephone records, text messages and pictures, many which aren’t able to posted due to the extreme sexual graphic nature.
When Lacey decided to abandon her fiancé, she made absolutely certain that he would be unable to defend himself, speak out or share anything that undermined her narrative and twisted version of reality.
As with almost all covert narcissists, Lacey needed to control this narrative completely, and again as almost all narcissists do, she portrayed herself only as the poor victim, accepted no responsibility in any way, placed blame upon him as early possible and outright lied to everyone from friends to family to coworkers to law enforcement and anyone else necessary.
All of this simply so she could maintain support and sympathy for her decision to leave her fiancé for the person with whom she’d been cheating with behind his back, and to provide validation for her lies, treachery, deception, theft and betrayal that had been part of the daily routine for Lacey during the last 15 months of her engagement.
Rather than accept any responsibility in any way, Lacey projected her very own disgusting and vile choices, decisions and behavior thoroughly upon her fiancé who had trusted her and loved her without question.
In April 2018, Kim Barron, a known user of illicit drugs and convicted felon with numerous arrests and convictions for DWI’s, Drug Possession and Assault with Bodily Injury, had begun her advances towards Lacey within mere days of her starting her new job at Peggy’s on the Green. Kim had written her name and number in Lacey’s notebook complete with a small heart in place of the dot for the letter i.
Within weeks, the two had begun their sexual affair less than 3 months after Lacey began sharing the home her fiancé had purchased for them to begin their new life together.
Kim had persisted even while knowing that Lacey was engaged to be married however this was irrelevant to the homely Kim. She had already decided that interfering in another couple’s relationship, an act considered to be of no character or class by most, was worth the potential trouble and effort.
With Lacey indicating her advances welcome, she didn’t hesitate to engage in sex with Kim, finding it easy to lie to her fiancé without any hesitation.
Kim and Lacey found it easier than expected to hang out together, as her fiancé left for work as early as 5.30AM and it wasn’t uncommon for him to return as late as 8.00PM due to his commute and his role as an internal auditor for a large organization based within San Antonio.
Lacey took advantage of his long days and commute each way, having Kim come by the newly purchased home, sometimes arriving less than 30 minutes after her fiancé had lovingly tucked the blankets around her, told her how much he loved her and kissed her good-bye before his daily drive of 65 miles each way.
In June 2018, he had a business trip scheduled that would have him flying to Chicago for the majority of the week. As he was packing, he asked Lacey if there was anything that she might like for him to get for her while he was up there. Lacey replied that she didn’t need anything however, she said with a forced chuckle “Why don’t you try to get you some strange while you’re up there?”
He remembers looking at her and commenting ” Sorry but I’m not cheating on my bride to be, I love you too much.” He brushed it off as an attempt by her to joke with him about stepping outside the relationship.
In remembering this event, it would become all too clear that Lacey was actually giving him permission to cheat, a psychological trick that provided her with a trade-off and a way to ease her own growing anxiety;
As it was discovered over a year later, Lacey had planned for Kim to stay the entire time at the home she shared with him, providing them with complete and total privacy for their drug and alcohol use and sexual escapades that had already become wilder and more daring in every way imaginable.
That Tuesday, with his flight cancelled due to bad weather, he drove home and while stopping to pick up a six pack of beer, called Lacey to ask if she needed anything that he could pick up on the way home, explaining the situation of his cancelled flight. He now clearly remembers what he didn’t even notice then, the higher pitch in the tone of her voice and the surprise of his calling her not from Chicago but from less than a 20 minute drive away.
As he would also later read in their text messages between them, he’d actually come within 15 minutes of catching them in bed together, not even noticing Kim as she passed him going the other way on the only road that led to their home nestled halfway up a large hill at the entrance of a box canyon.
When asked today what he would have done had he caught them in bed together, his stated “I would have killed them both before they would’ve realized what had happened, and I wish I had.”
Kim would eventually leave Peggy’s on the Green to work at The Cypress Grille, also located in Boerne on main street and soon afterwards Lacey followed, outright lying to her fiancé as to the reason she’d suddenly chosen to leave her dream job as the Pastry Chef at a prestigious 5 star restaurant where she’s begun to gain recognition for her incredible cakes, pies, cookies from such customers a George Straight and Tommy Lee Jones among others.
The disgustingly low level of her growing lack of conscience and integrity became even more apparent as he would learn of the realities covered up by her deception.
In the fall of 2018, he was seriously injured while working on their property, suffering severe 2nd degree burns to his right arm and leg. Spending nearly 2 weeks at the Ft. Sam Burn Unit, fighting infection, overcoming sepsis and narrowly avoiding skin grafts he was barely able to walk, and would remain unable to travel or work until the wounds had sufficiently healed and would spend an the entire month of November at home fighting the infection and inability to do almost anything other than rest.
During the almost two weeks he was hospitalized and laying in excruciating pain, Lacey managed to visit her severely injured and burned fiancé on two times, with each visit lasting less than 30 minutes, and to add insult to injury, upon his discharge she didn’t show up to take him home saying that her work schedule had interfered.
Again as was learned after the fact from the numerous messages between the two, Lacey and Kim had spent much of his stay within the hospital together in his home and in his bed. drinking and using drugs, specifically crystal meth.
Instead of caring at all about her severely injured fiancé, Lacey had instead spent most of that time with a person he would never have ever allowed on the property and apparently didn’t give him a second thought. While he was laying hospitalized in excruciating pain, the two of them were partying and having sex in his bed, in his own home.
Lacey appeared to have been more bothered by the inconvenience of his being home and unable to work, so she manufactured yet other lies to explain her long absences that began to include overnight stays, telling him that the demand for her cakes and pies had grown so much that the managers of the restaurant had paid for a room for her to stay in rather than her drive the windy road almost 3o miles late at night.
As was recently discovered, this provided the perfect opportunity for Lacey and Kim to spend their time together; he was unable to barely walk much less drive, highly medicated on a variety of pain meds and he had no reason to think otherwise that Lacey would be doing anything he wouldn’t have approved of.
In reality, Lacey was engaging in behaviors, including multiple partners with Kim, increasing her use of crystal meth and drinking an ever growing amount of vodka than ever before.
Lacey had also begun engaging in meth driven sexual group play with Sarah Mangham, her meth dealer and disgraced former mayor of Buda TX and her sexual deviant boyfriend Ray along with other numerous social parasites that found their way to Sarah’s to purchase meth and other assorted drugs.
At this specific moment and point in time, Lacey literally became the very worst enemy her fiancé could have ever dreamed of sleeping alongside of. She was supposed to be his lover, best friend, equal, supporter and spouse, and she was anything but. Instead she would choose to become his executioner.
Throughout this entire time period and to this day, Lacey has lied to everyone including her family, friend, her ex-fiancé and his family, to law enforcement and has never once apologized or provided anything close to an honest explanation for what she’s almost entirely responsible for and the destruction of her fiancé in almost every way imaginable.
Lacey intentionally misled her fiancé, who had no idea of what she was doing behind his back as he was working to pay for the home he had bought them, their upcoming wedding, honeymoon and a surprise wedding present, a brand new Chevy 4X4 pickup complete with personalized license plates. He’d also arranged for a luxury condo in the Turks and Caicos Islands complete with a private 1.5 mile beach, placing a deposit of $10K for their honeymoon. He loved her and was incredibly proud of her, always speaking of her amazing talent as a cook and pastry chef. In January of 2019, Lacey began talking of wanting to have a baby and he was on board with idea immediately as he’d never thought of becoming a father before. Everything appeared to him to be finally coming together and he was as happy as he’d ever been before in his life.
On the evening of July 19th, 2019 everything changed in the matter just a few moments.
After telling him that he was her entire world, her everything, that she loved him so much, and that she really couldn’t be happier than she was at that very moment, Lacey kissed him goodnight and mentioned that she’d be in to join him in bed shortly, she waited for him to fall asleep and as he began to snore, Lacey crept out of the home that was supposed to be where they began their new life together and left, driving to 30 minutes away to Boerne.
Lacey gave no warning, explanation or reason, leaving him with nothing but a barely coherent text message that he woke up to not even 25 minutes later. Instead of the wonderful life he’d been envisioning and beginning to enjoy of it becoming a reality, the nightmare that had been festering behind his back had started to emerge and he stunned beyond belief.
That weekend as everything began to collapse around him, he discovered that his single greatest fear had been realized, and he began to retrieve and download every single piece of communication that had ever been received or sent from the iPhone and her account that he been paying for.
As of February 2020, over 3000 pages of email, text, Facebook, and numerous other social media messaging apps that were saved on the Verizon cloud, he was able to learn literally everything, from who she had really attended a Nascar event with, to what had really happened to the Freezerburn 2019 tickets that he paid for and Lacey had lied about being stolen, to the overwhelming number of times that she had spent several days at a time in Spring Branch, TX with her meth dealer Sarah Mangham the disgraced former mayor of Buda TX who had been forced to resign, engaging in various group sex with Sarah, her degenerate boyfriend Ray, and numerous other social parasites.
As he began to discover the cold disgusting reality of what Lacey had been doing and involved in for the past 15 months, the overwhelming number of lies, deceptions, betrayals and cheating became shatter any happiness he’d known, Lacey admitted everything he had learned of in the following three weeks. Beyond stunned and in complete disbelief, he was barely accepting of the thought that the one true love of his life was anything but the very worst enemy he could’ve possibly imagined.
Unfortunately, there was so much, much documentation including telephone bills corresponding directly to pictures taken at various moments indicating the date and time capturing Lacey texting and the actual emails, text messages, Facebook, Whatsapp, Snapchat, Instagram and others providing in not only Lacey’s very words but those Kimma, Jody, her father, her sisters, her meth dealer Sarah Mangham and others who not only knew months before that night in July what Lacey was planning to do but they had actually supported and assisted Lacey in committing adultery, deception and fraud. Sadly, every one of them were motivated by lies, untruths and deception upon them as well.
Lacey had spent the seven months quietly and methodically smearing her fiancé, telling them all of the activities she’d been involved in, including using meth and other illicit drugs, participating in group sex, sex with other girls, only Lacey was using a common tool of the narcissist, a practice called Projection.
Rather than accept any responsibility in any way, over these seven Lacey placed blame entirely upon her fiancé telling lie after lie and misleading her friends and family in regard to his character, integrity and his sexual behavior, and during this entire time she was slowly assassinating and destroying him she was telling him that she loved him, talking of having a baby with him, talking about wedding plans, the possibility of starting and operating a business together, and everything else a couple in love and starting their life together does.
Amazingly, during that same time period Lacey was living what could only be viewed upon as a double life, with clothes neatly folded in drawers and carefully hung in Kim’s bedroom not even 30 miles away, with whom she spent her time having sex, drinking and using drugs while her fiancé believed that she had driven 6 hours to Lufkin to visit family.
Even more amazingly, Lacey didn’t and still to this day shows no remorse, care or even a second thought to the reality that she intentionally and maliciously destroyed a man’s mental, emotional and psychological health, ruined his career, prospects for a future, finances, his ability to simply sleep and concentrate, all because he loved her with all his heart, bought her a home in the hill country, trusted her unconditionally, and he had asked of her only three things in return ; to love him, and that she not lie or cheat upon him.
And she simply just couldn’t not do those three things. Lacey was trolling for girls on her own, from a bull dyke in Louisiana in the fall of 2017 all the way through to the last known pickup being known only as Ophelia, who she picked up at the Rustic Bar and Restaurant at The Rim shopping area, and had sex with in the back seat of her fiancé’s pickup truck. Later that very same day, Lacey was at Sarah Mangham’s getting high on meth and having sex with both Sarah and Ray.
This created a psychological devaluation, where it became more palatable for her family to accept Lacey leaving him out of false stories of fear and safety, rather than leaving him for a convicted felon and known criminal degenerate lesbian waitress who would never be able to provide the opportunities and security that her well educated and degreed business professional could.
As rehearsed and planned so many times before, Lacey’s family and friends, many of whom had never met her fiancé, bought her propaganda, bullshit allegations and blatant lies without hesitation, while her fiancé unknowingly was being sacrificed.
In reality, the description of a covert narcissist very perfectly describes Lacey’s overall behavior, including the love-bombing she lavished upon him, to the extremely subtle psychological and emotional trauma not even realized until medical treatment began after the first of many attempts to end his own life caused by the extreme depression and anxiety coupled with horrific nightmare, to the extreme discarding and gas lighting that she began very shortly after meeting and beginning her affair with Kim, who appears to have become the surrogate mother that Lacey described as searching for her entire life.
These statements however, easily conflict with Lacey’s own increasingly sexual deviant and often criminal behavior alongside of Kim, especially when read in her own words from her supposedly confidential messages to Kim during the 15 month period they snuck around together, with Lacey blatantly lying to her fiancé and Kim reportedly using a GPS tracking app to warn them of the fiancé’s approaching too close, given they actually came within 10 to 15 minutes of being discovered early on in their affair. (evidence of a GPS tracking application in operation was discovered through diagnostics on the fiancé’s cell phone, February 2020)
Lacey for lack of another better description, unleashed Kim to lead the attack that all but destroyed her fiancé’s career, mental health, emotional and psychological health, attacking him with the filing of a false police report for harassment, the very same day that she went to his place of employment and asked him to lunch to discuss her coming home and reconciliation.
An investigation proved that not one claim of the false police report had any merit or credibility to support it, and that at least one email provided to the police was manufactured by either one or both Lacey and Kim.
This was dismissed although the act of manufacturing false evidence to support a fraudulent police report is a second degree felony. Surprisingly, the Boerne Police actually refused to pursue the matter any further, with many thinking that the police simply did not want to be seen as “picking on a couple of lesbians just because they had vaginas” and not wanting to draw the wrath and ire of the local gay community.
One week later, a hoax phone call was made to the fiancé’s employer, by a female portraying herself as a member of the San Antonio Police Department, and stating that an officer would be coming to pick up the fiancé’s work laptop as he was being investigated for child pornography. Within the hour, while on his way home, the fiancé learned that his $90,000 per year contract had been terminated without any explanation or recourse available. It would be the following February before he would learn of the truth, and was devastated to learn of such a malicious, disgusting hateful lie was somehow tied to him without any bearing or malice intended.
Between October 2 and January 3, as a direct result of the narcissistic abuse, emotional and psychological destruction and the loss of his employment contract, along with fiancé overnight becoming complete stranger and outright enemy to him, Lacey’s fiancé who was already dealing with relentless social and online attacks, depression and stress, began to endure far greater and much more serious health issues.
These included increased short term memory loss, a total loss of concentration, an inability to focus, all loss of attention to detail, self worth, self esteem, he also began suffering uncontrollable emotional breakdowns making it almost impossible to function daily. As a result, he attempted to end his own over twenty times, nearly succeeding 4 times with life flights from his home to San Antonio, where he would regain consciousness not aware of what his subconsciousness was pushing him towards.
Ironically on the evening of December 25th, it was the very same burner phone and number previously used as before to contact the sheriff’s department on that Christmas night with yet another hoax phone call and the same voice. A female claimed that she had been in an internet chat room with the fiancé and he stated that he was planning to shoot himself that night and had been up for days using meth.
Four sheriff’s deputies stormed his house that night with assault weapons while he was reading a book and attacked him, and upon finding no firearms or meth, they discovered that he had not even been online with anyone that evening.
The call was traced to the same burner phone number, purchased at Wal-Mart in Boerne with cash, by a female who could not be accurately identified.
Since then, no further evidence has ever been able to be found or connected from the burner phone to either of these two human ass stains.
Numerous online postings were also made over a period of several months using a series of mirrored email accounts with derogatory messages sent to the two narcissist deviants and their families, made to appear to have been created and posted by the fiancé. However, he had changed all his email addresses many months earlier, and could not have possibly posted any of the postings. Subsequent investigation indicates the URL and IP addresses to have been “spoofed” and originated from an location close to the Hughs street address.
The harassment by Lacey’s degenerate girlfriend continues to this day, while Lacey apparently claims no knowledge at all of any of these disgusting acts, blaming her ex-fiancé without any evidence in existence, again a classic narcissist move.
As mentioned, the fiancé as of today has been further diagnosed with severe manic depression (pre-existing however much worse), uncontrollable Complex PTSD, severe anxiety disorder, chronic insomnia, severe somatic symptoms including horrendous nightmares that would scare Stephen King to death, short term memory loss, loss of concentration, and focus, and he’s not been able to sleep in his own bed since Lacey initiated and instigated this disturbing event on July 19th 2019.
He’s slowly accepting that he’ll most likely never be able recover from the extreme, severe emotional and psychological damage, is not expected to ever be able to hold a professional role or license in his chosen profession ever again, and medical professionals indicate that all of this is a direct result of the intentional, calculated, selfish, disgusting and cruel destruction of his life, inflicted by Lacey Howell aka Lacey Cummins, and Kim Barron. His life has been irreparably damaged and destroyed because these two whores simply have no values, morals or class.
These two are much more than home wreckers, they’re destroyers of life, subhuman social parasites and two of the most cruel, vile, disgusting degenerate warts of society and a threat to society.
Lacey and Kimma currently reside together in Boerne TX, working at the Cypress Grille on Main Street and Valeria’s Italian Restaurant in Boerne.
To this day, Lacey accepts no responsibility, accountability, remorse, guilt, or sense of shame for the extreme and outright malicious damage they’ve inflicted, while the fiancé has stated that he would be satisfied with an honest for once explanation from her face to face along with a simple apology for the destruction of his life that he worked so hard to be able to share with his bride to be and to try and make her as happy as she had made him.
Be extremely cautious and very aware of these two pathological liars, con-artists, degenerate sexual deviants, covert malignant narcissists, and outright criminal heathens who are skilled manipulators and extremely adept at portraying themselves as the victims of the very activities that they have been so very well orchestrated and instigated.
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